Let’s admit it, we all love receiving gifts. And if you’re like me, the more thought that went into it, the better. It shows the time and effort that was put into the gift and makes us feel loved and appreciated. Many also experience the same level of joy when giving a gift and seeing the recipient’s enthusiastic response.
If you feel that your gifts are receiving a somewhat lukewarm reception (after becoming known as the voucher queen), it may be time to up your gift-giving game and leave your friends and loved ones oohing and aahing while ripping through the wrapping paper. Here’s how:
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Pay attention to hints
During conversations with friends and family in the run-up to the occasion, take note of any hints they may give about what they like, need or want.
Keep a list of ideas
As you go about your days – shopping, scrolling social media, chatting to people at work – write down any ideas that may come to you that you feel would be suitable. This is handy so you have a reference when it’s time to make your purchase.
Get some intel and think about their space
While you may think that you’ve come up with a great gift idea, it might be something the person already has. So getting some intel beforehand is key. Depending on what the idea is, consider if it would fit well into their home and lifestyle.
Personalise the gift
A personalised gift is always a winner. Consider the person’s interests and hobbies, and choose a gift that suits their personality and style. Here, a sentimental gift with personal meaning can also be very impactful.
Put thought into the presentation
Wrap the gift beautifully and include a heartfelt handwritten note as this can enhance the gift-giving experience.
Make it yourself
Handmade items show the effort and care you’ve put into the gift and will leave the receiver feeling appreciative.

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Choose experiences over things
In this ‘more is more’ culture we are living in, why not opt to gift someone an experience rather than a material item that will just add to their accumulation of ‘stuff’. An experience can be a more fulfilling and meaningful choice, and the options are endless depending on the interest of the person – a cooking class, tickets to a concert or play or even a paragliding flight for the adrenaline junkie in your life.
Don’t overthink the price
A gift where thought has gone into it, regardless of the cost, is often more appreciated than an expensive, generic one. Depending on the nature of the relationship, try to avoid overly expensive gifts as this sometimes creates an awkward situation for the recipient.
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