Did you know that South Africa has the fourth highest rate of cyberbullying worldwide according to a global survey by YouGov? The survey found that one out of every five teens fall prey to cyberbullying and 84% of classmates know of someone who have been victimized. Sadly, with the rise of the digital age becoming a necessary part in our lives, it’s no surprise that this form of bullying has become one of the biggest concerns for both parents and students who suffer and have to deal with the devastating consequences.
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What exactly is cyberbullying?
It is any form of bullying that takes place online including on platforms like WhatsApp, Snapchat, TikTok, Instagram and gaming chatrooms. Young people today are increasingly exposed to many different tools and apps. It’s therefore very easy to produce videos, memes, manipulated photos, or even simple text messages with degrading comments and name calling. Trolling and cyberstalking of online profiles is also rapidly on the rise.
Parents often don’t know because the victims don’t tell them. They feel ashamed and don’t want their parents to get involved as it would worsen the abuse.
What are the main signs parents should look out for if they suspect that their child is a victim of cyberbullying?
1. If a child’s mood and behaviour suddenly change drastically from being socially inter-active to being depressed, anxious and isolated.
2. If they start hiding their devices and/or no longer allow you access to their social media accounts.
3. If their academic performance drastically decreases.
4. If they avoid any form of social interaction.
What can parents do to help and support their children?
According to Dr Serahani Symington, Child and Adolescent Counsellor and Play Therapy Specialist, the following approach is recommended.
1. It’s critically important to have an open relationship where your child feels safe to express their feelings, concerns and problems.
2. Don’t overreact and stay calm during the discussion.
3. Don’t tell your child to simply ignore the situation as it’s very real to them. They have the need for the abuse to be acknowledged.
4. Ask your child what their immediate need is. Is it to provide comfort or a solution?
5. Co-create a solution with your child to make them feel safe, secure and empowered to handle the situation.
6. Don’t retaliate. Rather address the issue with the school and not with the bully or his/her parents. Never invite the bully into your home, your child’s safe space, to resolve the issue.
7. Monitor and spot check your child’s devices with the narrative that it’s for their own protection and not because you don’t trust them.
8. Look at the ratings, age-restrictions and if possible, experience the games and apps your child interacts with for yourself to look for possible pitfalls and warning signs that could put your child in danger.
How does Wingu Academy, an online schooling from home provider, protect and support parents and students against cyberbullying?
“At Wingu Academy we have a zero-tolerance policy against any form of bullying. Our Wellness Hub offers counselling and support to students and parents. By following a holistic approach of creating a culture of inclusivity and high moral values we teach our students to respect their fellow students,” says Managing Director Ian Strydom.
Wingu Academy’s Cyberbullying Policy offers useful guidelines to students to protect them. Some recommendations include:
1. Be careful who you allow to become a friend online and think about what information you want them to see.
2. Always log off from the computer when you have finished or if you leave the computer for any reason.
3. Always put the privacy filters on to the sites you use.
4. Never reply to abusive messages.
5. Always stay in public areas in chat rooms.
Enrolments to start schooling in January 2022 are now open. Visit their website at www.winguacademy.com or go to www.wingu-academy.com/book-now to book a consultation now.
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