While there may be a good dose of fearmongering around child online safety, the risks are still real, and parents need to understand them so that they are empowered to take action to protect their families. Cyberbullying, exposure to harmful and inappropriate content, and grooming by online predators are the stuff of parents’ nightmares. However, on the plus side, there’s also a robust cybersecurity ecosystem offering significant tools that help parents to protect their families.
The digital realm is rich with opportunities for our kids to explore, learn and connect. As parents, we don’t want to stand in the way of that. But, it’s also a Wild West when it comes to cybercrime. The 2022 Parent Guide for child online safety reports that 68% of child internet activity is not monitored by parents and 85% of parents are putting devices into their kids’ hands just to keep them busy.
“One of the biggest hurdles to keeping kids safe online is a parent’s lack of knowledge of the cyber spaces where their kids are active. Many parents sanction their kids having social media accounts without much clue about how those platforms actually work,” explains cybersecurity expert and GoldPhish CEO, Dan Thornton. Some parents aren’t aware that the games their kids play have online chatrooms where they are engaging freely with strangers. There are parents who are unaware that recreational drugs are sold online to minors, or who think it’s impossible that their kid may engage with pornographic or suicide ideation content. This raises the risks that their child could become a victim, or even a perpetrator of cybercrime. It also flies in the face of data – Ofcom, the UK communications regulator, reported in 2019 that 79% of internet users aged 12 to 15 years experienced at least one potentially harmful interaction online over a 12 month period.
“As parents we instruct, guide and model behaviours for our children so that they can succeed and make a positive contribution to the world. We teach them all sorts of things to keep themselves safe and ensure they don’t cause harm to others. Today, this vital parental role has to include the fast and ever-changing digital environment. Our kids are not just citizens in the physical world, they are digital citizens too. This demands that parents take a keen interest in ensuring that they are cyber savvy, and that they make good use of the latest cybersecurity tools that help to keep families safer,” notes Thornton.
There are three steps parents need to take to becoming cyber savvy:
- Be informed – when it comes to your child’s safety, ignorance is not bliss. Know exactly where they are engaging online through games, websites and apps on their phones. Understand those platforms, how they operate and the risks to minors. Make sure your kids are only playing age-appropriate games and don’t let them sign up for social media accounts when they are under-age.
- Talk to your kids about online safety – open, trusted communications are your best route to keeping your child safe online. Just as you are in the physical world, be their first-line of protection in online spaces. Educate them about the risks and the warning signs. Let them know that they can and should come to you with their concerns. Educate them about privacy and the importance of not publishing or sharing their personal data, which includes your credit card details! Keep abreast of evolving cyber safety risks and talk through these as a family.
- Deploy the latest cybersecurity tools – a parental control app is just one layer of security, and it can’t possibly mitigate all the online risks. The cybersecurity ecosystem for families is constantly evolving and latest tools include AI-driven apps that can alert parents to potentially risky child engagements with people and content online across multiple devices. This empowers the parent to step in at the moment of risk and ignite conversations and take actions that can keep their child safer online.
Photo by Julia M Cameron